So you think that you are in love. Are you sure? How? Why do you think that you are in love? Why do you think that it is not short-term fascination? Why do you think that you both are destined to grow old together? Let us try and find out.
Do you feel happy with your beloved? Do you feel that if you both were left alone on an island for seven days, you would enjoy it? Or you will get tired? How about your self esteem? Does your beloved make you feel good about yourself? Is his/her focus on your good features or sometimes mistakes? What about you? Are you looking for some signs of weak points in certain areas, or are contented and satisfied with the whole package?
Love is different than any other relationship and has its own actions. It goes beyond friendship and one has to ask questions to find out if it is love and nothing else. Coming back to our inquiry, what if you’re beloved gets you some clothes? Will you be delighted and wear immediately, or will you try to look at it seriously to find out how you will look in that specific piece of clothing?
Do you smile at the thought of your beloved? Get wonderful? Want to share everything good? Say, you see something good, or finish a some work very satisfactorily, will you instantly tell your beloved about that? Will you be impatiently waiting to share that? Do you ever evaluate him/her with others? Give a second look to someone of opposite sex? No? What if the person is amazing in looks? Would you still rather never think of giving a second look and continue with the thoughts of your beloved? What if you go to a movie together? Will you try to look at each other in the night or rather watch the movie? Do you watch the movie at all while you are together?
Are you planning of future together? Having children, a new home, and new life? Do you talk about how you both would like to spend your old age together? Have you also thought about the career options after wedding? If your answers to all above issues are in beneficial, you need to look at the connection seriously. Because you are in love! Now is the time to ask – Will you marry me?
Love is difficult to find out. Many times, we feel that we are in love, only to find out subsequently that it was not love. It is superior to make sure that it is love before choosing. Wish you all the best.