Often we put up all of this resistance and are scared to fall in love. I consider that all of us have anything within our self that wants to secure our thoughts. Falling in love leaves us insecure. It kind of takes over our whole psyche, and we experience that we might lose management. When we fall in love, often we remember a certain song that comes on the radio that reminds us of the one we really like. Most of the day, we can’t get them out of our mind even although we keep trying to stay busy so we don’t think about them, somehow, the believed of them creeps back into our mind. We wonder what they’re up to and with whom? We still fight that sensation of love. Why? I believe it’s due to the fact we don’t want to be hurt. When we fall in love we put all of our feelings out there, and we feel a relationship to that individual. We don’t want that feeling of love to take over too much, in case on down the road there is a breakup. So, we put up this excellent wall of protection between them and us. Often, you just have to put your resistance down and know that being in love is a good thing. Yes, you might get hurt on down the road, but wouldn’t it be much better to have loved even if it’s just for a short time? Love is a wonderful feeling. You have that happy feelingall over, those seeing stars in your stomach when you look at that someone special. Love just kind of takes over, doesn’t it? Love is a feeling that you can’t put a price on. Love is a special wonderful connection between two human beings. It can last for a minute, a day, a week, a month, a year or a life-time.If you should find that you fall in love and on down the road it doesn’t work out, at least you’ve spent valuable time jointly with your loved one. Time goes on and on, and what you do with your life is so essential. To have loved is one of the biggest things that can happen to you in your lifetime. Don’t be afraid to love and be loved.I want to be able to say that when I am old and in the rocking chair that I have loved. How many people grow old and gray and never have been able to say they have really loved someone. So, next time, you are afraid of love try to remember what is more essential to you being afraid of love and not doing something about it, or allowing your defenses down and letting your feelings show. Don’t be afraid to love. You never know where a connection will go unless you’re not scared of love.