“I don’t have a phone”
“I have a boyfriend”
These are justifications most guys hear when they talk to girls and try to get their number. Most guys believe this is b. s., and you know what? It is total bullshit.
Ladies, could you next time use a much better line? What person doesn’t have a phone now days? It’s definitely mad for you not to have a cell phone. I have had a cell phone for the last 10 years. I have sympathy for you guys that are obtaining these excuses because when I started in-game I would get these justifications all the time. It became so bad that I didn’t even ask for the phone number anymore.
Then, I discovered what I was doing incorrect. There was this huge thing over me that avoided me from getting the phone number, and it was not a simple fix in my case. The reason was I wasn’t splitting rapport. The issue is when you don’t crack rapport with a girl; she really doesn’t have a reason to even amuse giving you the phone number. The reason is simple: that’s because she doesn’t like you enough to give you a phone number. Even the tiniest amount of breaking rapport with a good enough justification for the number exchange is enough to get a phone number. For the phone number to be solid and for her to willing to text you back… that needs more work.
A solid number close requires two things:
1) The girl likes you.
2) There is a reason for her to give you the number.
The purpose she gives you the number could be: 1)Work/Business 2)Party 3)Romantic
This list is ranked from lowest to maximum in regards to our desirability and demonstrates the number of solid ways for you to get a phone number. “Just clinging out” isn’t really a good enough purpose unless the girl really likes you; then that should be enough.With the work/business close you should be careful as this type of close can actually backfire on you; do you want to be known as the sleazy guy that uses his business to bang girls?
A party close is where you’re welcoming the girl to an event that you plan on going to in the foreseeable future. It could be anything. The romantic close would be the best of the three as it could be regarded a date.With the exemption of the first number close you should and must escalate with the girl first then get the number. The purpose you do this is to primarily test whether the girl likes you enough to text back.