A proposal is anything that preferably happens once in a life-time. Therefore as a man you have to get it right the first time because after all you only get one shot. It is very essential to be sure that the lady you are proceeding to propose to will say yes to you or else your proposal will simply be a waste of time if not a heart breaker. Always make sure that you are sure about the other person’s programs before proposing because you may put them in a tight spot to say yes basically because they do not want to dissatisfy you.

When you have determined that she shares your plan to start a family, go ahead and get a nice ring that should be able to leave a smile on her face. Make sure you get her a ring that she will be proud to wear all over with her buddies and co-workers. Take your time to select a ring but do this in secret and if achievable consult with some of her buddies about the kind of jewelry she likes.

Discovering the right time to recommend is very important. Take some time and study her time table. Make sure you know the times when she is generally happy and the times when she may not be happy. Do not choose to propose to her at a time when she wants to be left alone because she might end up frustrating you. Females tend to have mental highs and lows; make sure you know when the perfect time is.

Based upon on the sort of lady she is you might want to pick out a good location to make the proposal. If she is the kind of woman who is very shy and does not like being around too many people you are better off planning a small proposal where it is just you and her plus a few trusted friends.

This will help her not to feel like she is being pressured to say yes to you. If on the other hand she is the kind of person who does not mind being in public places with you, you could think about a proposal in a public place like a restaurant. Here it is important to make sure you have the right kind of setting so that still she does not feel pressured or uncomfortable.

When you have the best place and time get down on one knee and hold out the ring casing in front of her; hold it out and ask her to get married to you. Do it with a smile but make sure it is not too wide to seem like you are kidding. Keep it very simple and real. This should be the starting of a happy life jointly for you and her.